Just You!

I don't think this is my first time blogging about this, but I've pretty much come to a point where I just cannot take giving of myself to others so much more, to the extend where I feel I'm betraying myself, neglecting myself.

If a friend really treat you as his/her friend, I believe he/she will know what to do as one. It's pretty tiring being the one taking the initiative for weeks, months, and even years, but yet, he/she doesn't know how to reciprocrate.

I have to learn to stop somewhere between the line. If loving someone causes that someone to feel uneasy between each other, then it's pretty sad, because he/she just doesn't know what love is all about then. Why can't people give, give of themselves so unselfishly like what God did. Well, we're humans, but at least we could try.

Excuses are a valley full, it reaches a mountain high.

Let's get one thing straight people if you are reading this. If your schedule ahead is empty, it means that you are free, unless there's already something happening on that date, day, time! Planning ahead gives you more opportunity for slotting things into your life. I think the excuse of 'I'll see if I am free on XXX date and time', because you're obviously free, it's either you want, or do not want. And if you are given the opportunity of choosing the date and time, it's pretty obvious that you cannot say when you are not available anymore because the date you choose should and would be the day you are free!

I am sure, a friend, or someone, would want to hear the truth, rather than an excuse to cover something up.

Honestly and love, goes a long way between friends. Commitment is certainly a must have for ALL relationships God has intended for us humans.

The commitment you have for a friend, is felt, is cherished is reciprocated. That's what a true friend is. He/She, will love you because you mean alot to him/her, and because you love him/her likewise.

So people, if you really treasure those around you, it's time to take that little extra step to show that someone how much you cherish and love him/her. Stop giving excuses, because one day short, and you may lose that chance forever. Treasure your friends. God Bless...